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for example, i don't want creeper wobble or enderman flailies, but the rest are amazing. If you're willing to do it it'd be much appreciated

Also thanks for updating your stuff to 1.19.4, you've made a lot of really nice mods and it was a shame to not be able to use them

That’s already a thing. You need the Configured mod to access the configs in-game. Or edit the file manually in the config directory.