Loving the mod and I love the XP orbs for Living stuff, but I was wondering if it'd be possible to make them get sucked up by magnets from other mods like normal XP does; or if a magnet of some sort could be added as an enchantment or item.

It takes awhile for the xp to be absorbed, so you can lose orbs easily and it very easily causes ridiculous amounts of lag if there's lots of xp, like it does with normal xp in vanilla.

Not sure. That's beyond my mod coop skills. Maybe someone more powerful knows? I'm sure I could probably figure it out given time (just gotta find another open source mod with it, and "fit the wheel"), but I have a lot of work right now. We'll see what happens.