My parent group has the permission "*" true, that is fine.
I hava all permissions from plugins, all from bungee, but no permission to access spigot/bukkit/minecraft commands

Is there perhaps a higher weighted (or non-weighted) group the player inherits that has those perms all set to false?

There is a user group, but this group hasn't got defined any parent groups and it is the group with the heighest weight

I added the permission bukkit.* and minecraft.* but it do not solves the problem, I have no access

Do you by any chance have any other permission plugins installed like PermissionsEx/PEX, GroupManager, UltraPermissions?
If so you need to remove them.