Sorry about the amount of mods - the server admin is a bit of a numb skull, but I would really appreciate some help.

why you have 2 fabric api ? delet the old one and try again

I'd like to say you should consider refraining from adding optifabric/optifine into a bunch of mods. It's an extremely hard task.
At least I saw an owo-lib incompatibility in #1016, but I don't know if it applies to you. So please upload the latest.log to find the suspicious mod.

why you have 2 fabric api ? delet the old one and try again

For now, remove the new one, 0.86.0, due to optifabric incompatibility with it (#1123).

oh I took replay mod out and it works

This happens to me to. The only mods I have are replay mod, essential, and then OptiFabric and the newest OptiFine.