I keep instant disconnecting from my friends server. this problem isnt happening to ANYONE else on the server

[06:16:50] [Server thread/INFO]: Professor_Peely[/xx] logged in with entity id 1400 at (-2346.8240933696447, 55.0, 1226.131031485915)
[06:16:50] [Server thread/WARN]: Player class_3222['Professor_Peely'/1455, l='ServerLevel[BunnieSMP]', x=-2346.82, y=55.00, z=1226.13] could not be synced because server networking isn't set up yet.
[06:02:33] [Server thread/INFO]: Professor_Peely lost connection: Timed out
[06:02:33] [Server thread/INFO]: Professor_Peely left the game

HELP all mods are exact version server and client side.

The warning message you see

Player class_3222['Professor_Peely'/1455, l='ServerLevel[BunnieSMP]', x=-2346.82, y=55.00, z=1226.13] could not be synced because server networking isn't set up yet.

is expected, and you see it even on fully functioning servers. It's most certainly not the cause of your disconnection. However the "timed out" message you get when disconnecting suggests that the server or the client take too long to communicate. This can either happen with a bad internet connection (on the side of the server or the client) or due to a lack of resources (CPU, RAM) on the server, which causes the server to be too slow to respond to client requests in time.
It's unlikely that this is caused by Origins.