here is the jest of my issue.
i use quark in my modpack well the problem becomes when I change the config on the client and server. I changed a setting to false the one called lgbt bees
I set it to false and the client is okay. but the server refuses to boot with that very setting set to false
kinda stupid. since last I was aware server configs override the client always. unless in rare cases that don't happen .but unlikely to say the least. as such even if I do disable it. on the client, it will still show LGBT bees in my server to my client because the server overrides the client.
don't know if this was an accidental side effect of the lgbt bees being rigged and hard-coded into it being a required setting on servers or what. or something that is a bug and accidental side effect. either way, id much prefer to keep it out of my server all lgbt stuff out of my family-friendly minecraft server

This feature is fully client sided so having it turned on on the server will have absolutely no effect.