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i may have looked over something, i do appologize, but i installed the mod, opened my port, edited the server config, and validated client config.

on my end i can see the pic working properly, it even tests properly, but my friends cant connect to voice, it keeps saying voice chat unavailable and "Client not Connected" when i do /voicechat test

read the wiki nothing in it is explaining my situation on whats going on would definitely appreciate a better response than "read the wiki"

So, you have tried everything that was stated in the wiki?

Please read the wiki.

yes even the netcat thing i can connect but other players ive sent the mod to that paly on the server are not able to use it, it keeps saying cannot connect to voicechat

What was the result of the netcat thing?

Did netcat work with the people that couldn't connect?