Not too sure how to obtain or make Lavium and qivium, Cant find anything about it

See JEI for recipes.

There are no recipes on how tomake it, just that it exists

Yeah I figured it out. You need a cobalt repair kid and pour liquid soul on the cobalt for lavium, and magma for qivium, and you need a bloodshroom sharperner and pout obsidian on it for wavy. You can also do this with an ingot or a cobalt block. Just smelt magma blocks and soul sand to get teh stuff you need to make them.