all weather form this mod is invisible with the shader i have

so i either need another shader that works with this mod or a way to turn on the cloud effects from this mod with shaders.

No shaders are compatible with this mod sadly.

Actually, I am running shaders fine with this mod. You do have to change a few options first:

particleShaders conflicts with some shaders as it can make clouds white or very visible in darkness. Disable it if your shaders can make it look much better.
useEntityRenderHookForShaders will cause a lot of problems with rendering and shaders. Disabling this will fix a lot of issues.
Misc_proxyRenderOverrideEnabled is most likely your issue. Disable it or enable it to hopefully fix the issue.