• Craft to Exile Version 2.9.4b
• World Type: Multiplayer/Friends Server
• RAM Allocation: 8gb then 12gb then 4gb

Describe the bug
-Had been running on a buddies server for 5 days straight, no issues.
-Got a hidden legendary item, used the journal whatever its called to uncover what the hidden item was.
-Game crashed with a Out Of Memory (Minecraft has run out of Memory) error.
-Restarted Game, cannot join server.
-Im playing with friends and they can get into the server just fine.
-Server does not acknowledge I am joining. Nothing
-SinglePlayer works fine with no issues
-Official servers work fine
-Buddies server also runs Plex. I can connect to Plex. I can ping the server just fine in CMD
-Connecting to server gets a ConnectionTimeoutError
-There is no Official Error like a java.langnull

Steps to reproduce the behavior:
I really dont know what to tell you here since it was a one and done type deal so far.

A clear and concise description of what you expected to happen.
For me to uncover the hidden legendary weapon

Add any other context about the problem here.
Uninstall/Reinstall: Dissonance
Uninstall/Reinstall: Curseforge launcher
Uninstall/Reinstall: Base minecraft
Restarted PC.
Network clean
Player.dat Wiped
Server Restarted
Server Wiped
Server Pack Fresh Install
Whitelisted/OPd
Tried Different Ram Allocations
ReAuthd MC account

Im going to close this since re reading it its probably not a modpack issue but an ISP or base MC issue. Great modpack have gotten days of enjoyment out of it already.