Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
I think the colony system needs to change a bit.
In other people's land, my items are not eaten, and even the boat is not broken, so I am very disappointed.
I don't think this has any consideration for newbies.
ex. I opened the box without understanding the colony system. A legendary weapon came out of the box and I was delighted, but after a few seconds it turned into frustration. The reason was the damn colony system. The item was not eaten. I really don't think this kind of thing can happen only to me. Therefore, I want to reorganize the colony system.

Describe the solution you'd like

1. Permissions for items that have fallen into the colony should be equal to everyone.
2. Must be able to ride items such as boats and also be able to break.

Even if these two things are observed, consideration for newbies will be further improved.

Additional context
This is what I felt while playing the official server. I think we need to tinker with this stuffy colony system.
Even if these two things are observed, consideration for newbies will be further improved.

Probably worth mentioning that even if any issues are taken into consideration by the minecolonies author, this pack won't see those changes as the mod author refuses to support anything less than the current minecraft version

@Neko0619 Minecolonies has a great way of handling others' on your land. It stops them from griefing/editing/breaking/etc.

The system is controlled by minecolonies, not by this modpack. If you have any issues with how the system was designed, stop my the minecolonies GitHub and post your thoughts there.

https://github.com/ldtteam/MineColonies