I use tomtom with lightheaded as well as carbonite, I also like to just put in way points into Carbonite but when tomtom is on it sorta takes all /way commands. is there a way to add a /cway to carbonite that just duplicates the /way function but only adds it to carbonite so the carbonite arrow is the one pointing the way?

already exists, /carb goto .... yeah it's a lot longer, but it works :) I'll consider adding /cway as an alias for /way, Tomtom made the coding decision to stop / kill anything else receiving a /way command which is why it stopped working with legion's launch.

So I added it as /cway in my local copy... however it appears Tomtom also has a /cway for telling it's system to point to the closest point.

I can either go /caway or /cbway ... or another letter that works instead of /cway.

Closing, as @mikepauer added cway macro. So this is solved.