They are assigned to left and right mouse clicks, and I know this is common. I used to use an add on called clique, which enables me to change those assignments. (I like to use those mouse buttons for other spells and assign target & menu to another bind. ) Is there something I am missing ?

I'm sure you'll eventually figure it out :D
(You can use Clique too if you want)

Of course, the obvious answer - I honestly thought I tried that, then spent a couple hours trying to google it before bothering you with it.

Thank you for the help !