When player using /clan sethome, message displayed "sethome succes!"
but It will not save at sql database, player using /clan home, will not teleporting to home

proxy config:
https://pastebin.com/8GKyRrgV

banked server config:
https://pastebin.com/eZzKqJVz

proxy and banked server debug log:
https://pastebin.com/0xruGZ7U

Bungeecord packet settings are all set to false, packets won't be handled in your case.

Once changed, try to execute /party debug bungeecord in Spigot console and screenshot the result.

[12:14:00 INFO]: Sent a debug BungeeCord request into the network

proxy server dose not respond anything

What about packets settings? Anyway, I need both server logs with debug enabled.
Firstly, you must have at least one player in the spigot server, so keep one player there and run party debug bungeecord in console.

Bungeecord and banked server packet settings are all set to false
I had keep one player and run party debug bungeecord in banked server console.

You need at least one player yes, but those packet settings must be set on TRUE, not false, or its normal for it to do not work.
If you set them to false, packets won't be handled at all so they are not sync.

proxy and banked server both set packet to true?

Yes

it succses to save home, but I try /home is not working

Can I see the log of that?

[07:58:36 INFO]: Sent a debug BungeeCord request into the network
[07:58:36 INFO]: [Parties] Parties is synced correctly

Try again the sethome command, it couldn't work before if you set those options to false.

proxy console: [08:08:49] [Parties Pool Thread #430/INFO] [Parties]: WaichingXD performed the command 'HOME' with 0 arguments

banked server not have any respond

Fixed with 3.2.4 ;)