for some reason whenever i add the mod to my modpack no matter how many mods it has it makes it so the loading screen is stuck on a loop, it doesn't crash it, it just stays looping the loading screen until I close the game myself. :( this is for fabric by the way

Do you have Create in your modpack? I was trying to get Create and Automobility to work together on Fabric 1.18.2, and reading into the problem, I disabled the button Create puts onto the main menu. Instead of crashing, it went into this forever load loop just like you're describing here. I figured I was onto something, but if that happens even without Create, then I am lost myself.